Do not ruminate about my in-laws with their ignorance, cluelessness, and sick family loyalty.
One BIL in particular. Well actually two but...OMG, I am just flabbergasted that this shit keeps coming up.
I got to vent about a recent encounter to my BFF and I feel better. No need to go over it again, making myself raging mad and disgusted.
I will talk to my husband about it just so he is clear why I was irritated after the encounter and also so he will know that I don't trust them and will limit my time around them.
Life is far too short and precious to be around people who support deplorable (fucking understatement) family members, just because they are family, and are insensitive to said family member's victims feelings up to and including telling them "people just need to get over it."
I am oh SO thankful that I do not have to be around these people for the holidays anymore.